Should I encourage my child to talk about what happened after a school shooting?

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Hayley Sherwood
Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Reston Psychological Center, P.C.
www.restonpsych.com  
(703) 437-3236

Dr. Sherwood is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice at Reston Psychological Center, P.C., in Reston, Virginia.  She specializes in parenting, family, and women's issues.  She has extensive experience with clients with a variety of emotional and behavioral difficulties in clinical, community, and school settings.  Dr. Sherwood received her doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology from Temple University in 2000.  She is a member of the American Psychological Association, the Virginia Psychological Association, the Northern Virginia Society of Clinical Psychologists, and the National Register for Health Service Providers in Psychology.

Should I encourage my child to talk about what happened after a school shooting?

 

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Host: Should I share my own thoughts and feelings about a school shooting?

Dr. Hayley Sherwood: Parents need to talk honestly about their own feelings regarding a school shooting, in order to help their child recognize that they are not dealing with their fears and other emotions alone. Children want and need explanation from the important adults in their life. When talking to your child, it is important to strive for a balance between helping a child feel safe and acknowledging that there is violence and danger in the world.

With a younger child you might begin a discussion by saying, I am very sad for all of those people and their families and ask your child what do you think about it? Explain, that it is important not to let what happened scare us so much, that we do not have fun and enjoy our life. An adolescent may or may not want to talk about the event. The older the child the more effective it is to talk about your own feelings first. If you express your own feelings of anger, sadness, fear, guilt and confusion it may help your teenager open up. 1

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