Host: Is this a process and if so where do I begin?
Will Maney: Well, in actually that s unfortunately what it s all about, it is absolutely a process. Very often, I am not sure how age related it is, but we would like things to happen very, very quickly and that is almost like a magical solution and sometimes we do need a quick fix to get us back into alignment, but we need to simply begin with what s going in right now.
The opening sentence would something like, so what seems to be bothering you, what seems to be the problem? What is it that appears to be this thing that is causing the angst, why did you make the phone call? And as soon as we begin to realize that the circumstances that I am reporting back to you, the stuff that I am complaining about, more than anything else that is just a reporting mechanism and you need to really see the importance of that.
The circumstances in my life how about this, someone is on a timeline; they have got to be someplace. They show up and they lock the keys in the car. At the last minute, what choice do you have in that, so where do I start? I start right there because if I bite the hook and then I have engaged it. So, the first place that we begin in the process is where you are right now and then realize it would be similar to what they call the knee jerk reaction. Theoretically, if the hammer hits the knee just right and you are relatively healthy, we know what is going to happen.
So, we want to begin as quickly as we cam in saying, disengage, disengage, disengage. If I go any further with this and if I give it a bad interpretation, if I go ah, geese I can t believe it, I just then set into action. A chain reaction of misthought and that is what we want to avoid, more often than not, we are a way down the process and we are way out of alignment and then coming back into what is real challenge.
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