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If sex wasn't goal oriented, what would it be like?

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  • Chris Wright
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    (703) 560-1520

    Chris Wright is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. He sees clients in the Washington, D.C. area and has telephone clients from around the world. So if you are having difficulty in your relationship, call for a free telephone consultation. Chris was Director of the Human Relations Institute in Houston and with PAIRS International -- training psychologists, psychiatrists and therapists in couple's skills programs. As an innovator in the field, he has developed a unique blend of tools that increase the effectiveness in relationships. He has Masters Degrees from the University of Arizona and Antioch University in Los Angeles.

  • If sex wasn't goal oriented, what would it be like?

    Making love is a vital dimension of intimacy in a marriage. This video will give you understanding of the lovemaking process. These video segments discuss why true lovemaking seems to diminish over time in a marriage, what gets in the way of lovemaking and how pure lovemaking changes the quality of the whole relationship.

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    <p>Host: If sex wasn t goal oriented, what would it be like?</p><p>Chris Wright: If sex was not goal orientated, it would be completely different; it would be a whole different experience. Remember, what we are looking to do here, is learn how to open up to, particularly for the man, how do attune to these more vulnerable loving energies, how to unleash these much more powerful, more accelerating, more intimate, more fulfilling that energies of pleasure in the experience? That requires being fully present with your partner, with full awareness able to absorb each moment as it enfolds innocently together. Any pressures would get in the way of that, any needs would get in the way of that, any turn-offs would completely overshadow that, any turn-ons would get in the way of that, of that innocence together.</p><p>Let me give you an example that would illustrate this. So, this lovemaking is connected more to the heart, more to the feminine energies inside. Deer Abby was a Syndicated Columnist back in the 70s and the 80s, a news paper columnist, who was very, very popular and people, couples, women would write in with questions and she would respond to them. At one point she asked her married women to respond, she asked them, to the married women, What would you prefer, would you prefer to have sexual intercourse, or would you prefer just to cuddle? and what do you think the responses was?</p><p>80% of the women responded that they would prefer to cuddle than to have sexual intercourse. Well, I think if we are with a group of men right now and as men we are talking together, I think we would be amazed by that, how could 80% prefer just to be held and cuddled, rather than have sex? It s just unfavorable to most men, how could that be seen as more pleasurable than having sexual intercourse? So, that is what we are up against here.</p>

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