Should children ever agree to meet someone in person who they have met online?

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Nancy McBride
National Safety Director, National Center for Missing and Exploited Children
www.missingkids.com  
1-800-THE-LOST

The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children’s (NCMEC) mission is to help prevent child abduction and sexual exploitation; help find missing children; and assist victims of child abduction and sexual exploitation, their families, and the professionals who serve them.

NCMEC was established in 1984 as a private, nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization to provide services nationwide for families and professionals in the prevention of abducted, endangered, and sexually exploited children. Pursuant to its mission and its congressional mandates (see 42 U.S.C. §§ 5771 et seq.; 42 U.S.C. § 11606; 22 C.F.R. § 94.6),

The NCMEC serves as a clearinghouse of information about missing and exploited children, operates a CyberTipline that the public may use to report Internet-related child sexual exploitation, provides technical assistance to individuals and law-enforcement agencies in the prevention, investigation, prosecution, and treatment of cases involving missing and exploited children, assists the U.S. Department of State in certain cases of international child abduction in accordance with the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, offers training programs to law-enforcement and social-service professionals, distributes photographs and descriptions of missing children worldwide, coordinates child-protection efforts with the private sector, networks with nonprofit service providers and state clearinghouses about missing-persons cases and provides information about effective state legislation to help ensure the protection of children.

Should children ever agree to meet someone in person who they have met online?

In this video series, Nancy McBride, the National Safety Director for the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children answers questions regarding personal child safety on topics ranging from the Internet, School safety, Holiday safety, and information about child identification. The Q&A provides helpful tips and tools for parents and guardians to help keep their children safer.

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Host: Should children ever agree to meet someone in person who they have met online? Nancy McBride: Children should not meet in person with people they have online unless their parent or guardian knows about it, has agreed to it, and agrees to accompany them, because again, people who are online are not always who appear to be, and even if the child knows they are communicating with somebody older, they don t know that person, they don t know the intent of that person, and we certainly across cases where especially teenage girls will form this really strong bond with older man online, think they have strong emotions and feelings for that persons, when the person s whole intent is to meet that teenager for sexual purposes, and once the child leave the online world and goes into the real world; everything may change because that child may not be prepared for what that person has in mind. So, use extreme caution when you are talking to people online and certainly don t agree to meet with them yourself alone and make sure that if your parent or guardian has said it's okay that it s in a public place, that preferably they are with you and that you would establish that right upfront with that person.

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