Is mediation only for people who can get along?

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<span>An experienced family-law attorney, John Spiegel has devoted his practice exclusively to family mediation since 1996. John is a graduate of Yale Law School and has been active as a mediation trainer and presenter in Maryland and nationally. He served in 2003 and 2004 as President of the Maryland Council for Dispute Resolution (MCDR), a statewide ADR practitioners’ organization, and in 2005 – 2008 as President of the Montgomery County Divorce Roundtable, an interdisciplinary professional organization. John has published articles on mediation and law reform issues and has lobbied on behalf of these issues before the Maryland General Assembly. In 2001, he received recognition as a Certified Mediator from MCDR. The father of four children, John views mediation as a continuation of his legal work on behalf of children and families.</span>

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Host: Is mediation only for people who can get along?

John Spiegel: Mediation can work well in high conflict cases as well as in amicable divorces. I actually enjoy the challenge of the hard cases and even when people come into in my office and the thing looks very nasty, people are saying things that are very harsh and they are having difficulty focusing on the specific issues that are under discussion, I still feel like I have to wind it my back because I believe that, it is just an inherent part of human nature that people want to find solution that work well for everybody.

My experience is that with the tools of mediations that are available to me, it is often possible after a kind of exciting rough start to a mediation process, that people will get right down to work and do beautiful work, and do which is fine. So, I find that really the overwhelming majority of people can do very good work in mediation.

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