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Toni Coleman

http://www.consum-mate.com/index.html

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Toni Coleman, MSW is a licensed psychotherapist, relationship coach and founder of http://www.consum-mate.com. As a recognized expert, Toni has been quoted in many local and national publications including; The Chicago Tribune, The Orlando Sentinel, New York Daily News, Indianapolis Star and Newsweek newspapers and Family Circle, Woman's Day, Cosmo Style, Tango, Men's Health, Star (regularly quoted body language expert), People, and Nirvana magazines. She has been featured on abcnews.com, discovery.health.com, aolnews.com, MSN.com, Match.com and planetearthradio.com. Toni is also the featured relationship coach in “The Business And Practice Of Coaching,” (published by Norton, September 2005); and is the author of the forward for,” Winning Points With The Woman In Your Life, One Touchdown At A Time” ( published by Simon and Schuster, November 2005). Toni offers dating and relationship help and advice through her syndicated column, "Dear Dating Coach," and her popular monthly newsletter, "The Art of Intimacy." From March 2005 until December 2005, she was a weekly contributing commentator (love and dating coach) on the KTRS Radio Morning Show, (St. Louis, MO). Toni is a member of The International Coach Federation, The International Association of Coaches and The National Association of Social Workers.

What are some ways to know if someone is not attracted to you by their body language?

Dating and relationship coach Toni Coleman discusses the importance of body language, including how to know if someone is not attracted to you by their body language.

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Speaker: What are some ways to know if someone is not attracted to you by their body language?

Toni Coleman: Again, it would be sort of the reverse of some of the positive things that I talked about earlier. It would be somebody who is closed off when they're in your presence. It's somebody who perhaps if you're saying they're talking, they're standing back further than would be the normal distance that we would expect if we were conversing. Perhaps as you stand together, they're kind of facing in different way. Maybe, if you're sitting near each other, they're crossing away like this, doing this kind of thing. Perhaps, it's that they keep averting their eyes and you're not able to get eye contact with them, which always gives off the sense that they're holding back or they're hiding or they're deceiving, that's usually how that's read by people whether they're really consciously aware of that or not. Things like just sort of a general communication of avoidance or reluctance or pulling back, those are the things that would demonstrate that they're just not interested