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Must the right chemistry be present immediately to know if he or she is "the one?"

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  • Toni Coleman
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    Toni Coleman, MSW is a licensed psychotherapist, relationship coach and founder of http://www.consum-mate.com. As a recognized expert, Toni has been quoted in many local and national publications including; The Chicago Tribune, The Orlando Sentinel, New York Daily News, Indianapolis Star and Newsweek newspapers and Family Circle, Woman's Day, Cosmo Style, Tango, Men's Health, Star (regularly quoted body language expert), People, and Nirvana magazines. She has been featured on abcnews.com, discovery.health.com, aolnews.com, MSN.com, Match.com and planetearthradio.com. Toni is also the featured relationship coach in The Business And Practice Of Coaching, (published by Norton, September 2005); and is the author of the forward for, Winning Points With The Woman In Your Life, One Touchdown At A Time ( published by Simon and Schuster, November 2005). Toni offers dating and relationship help and advice through her syndicated column, Dear Dating Coach, and her popular monthly newsletter, The Art of Intimacy. From March 2005 until December 2005, she was a weekly contributing commentator (love and dating coach) on the KTRS Radio Morning Show, (St. Louis, MO). Toni is a member of The International Coach Federation, The International Association of Coaches and The National Association of Social Workers.

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    Speaker: Must the right chemistry be present immediately to know if he or she is the one?

    Toni Coleman: No it doesn't have to be present immediately and in fact that is another great myth in our culture that whole love at first sight, all the locked eyes across the crowded room and they just knew. Certainly, we have all heard stories from grandparents and parents about seeing this person at the train station, or meeting this person at a dance, and they said to their friend that's going to be mother of my children, or that's the guy that I am going to marry and yes that can happen. That being said, for many people it is more of a slow kind of thing. They meet somebody, maybe they are neutral, maybe they don't even really particularly like the person the first time they meet them. There is kind of this edginess between them and then they get to know them and they start connecting, maybe as friends like in Harry Met Sally or they start connection on a variety of -- around some kind of interest or some other way and they start to suddenly feel this infinity with this person.

    Wow! This person does get me; wow! I can talk to this person. As they get to know them the person is more attracted to them; they really strike to see them differently and there are many, many, many relationships that began that way and were just friends for awhile and suddenly things just start to happen or perhaps they knew each other through mutual friends and just suddenly one day a light-bulb went on; they were having a conversation and whatever and boom, something happened, it does happen.

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