Is it normal to devote more time to a new love relationship than to one's work and friendships?

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Toni Coleman, MSW is a licensed psychotherapist, relationship coach and founder of http://www.consum-mate.com. As a recognized expert, Toni has been quoted in many local and national publications including; The Chicago Tribune, The Orlando Sentinel, New York Daily News, Indianapolis Star and Newsweek newspapers and Family Circle, Woman's Day, Cosmo Style, Tango, Men's Health, Star (regularly quoted body language expert), People, and Nirvana magazines. She has been featured on abcnews.com, discovery.health.com, aolnews.com, MSN.com, Match.com and planetearthradio.com. Toni is also the featured relationship coach in “The Business And Practice Of Coaching,” (published by Norton, September 2005); and is the author of the forward for,” Winning Points With The Woman In Your Life, One Touchdown At A Time” ( published by Simon and Schuster, November 2005). Toni offers dating and relationship help and advice through her syndicated column, "Dear Dating Coach," and her popular monthly newsletter, "The Art of Intimacy." From March 2005 until December 2005, she was a weekly contributing commentator (love and dating coach) on the KTRS Radio Morning Show, (St. Louis, MO). Toni is a member of The International Coach Federation, The International Association of Coaches and The National Association of Social Workers.

Is it normal to devote more time to a new love relationship than to one's work and friendships?

 

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Host: Is it normal to devote more time to a new love relationship than to ones work and friendship?

Toni Coleman: Yes it is definitely normal. This is something that is exciting, it is important, it takes up so much of ones thinking and planning and energy and it brings about almost like this feeling of euphoria and it kind of takes over and blocks out a lot of the normal day to day things. It is just more interesting, it is more exciting. So it is going to require at the beginning that somebody really be thinking about not losing sight of other things in their life. Making sure that they are really kind of thinking consciously about their other relationships, their friendships, about their work and that they are trying to maintain some sort of way of fitting this in, it's not going to throw everything else out of balance.

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