Do I have to like my fiancé's family?

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Bill Cochran
Say "I Do" Your Way
www.sayidoyourway.com  
301-926-2671

Rev. Bill Cochran is the owner of Say “I Do” Your Way. In this company, Bill & his wife Joyce offer their services as wedding officiants and pre-marriage Counselors.  They have been working with couples for the past thirty-nine years and have conducted hundreds of weddings. Bill also serves as a trainer for Life Innovations certification of counselors and clergy in the Metro Washington, DC/Maryland/Virginia area. His extensive background in marriage and pre-marriage counseling has prepared hundreds of couples to navigate the tough issues of relationship building.

Over the years, Bill & Joyce have built an exciting and fulfilling marriage relationship. Thus they see weddings as the greatest event in life. Helping other couples to share the same positive experience they enjoy in marriage is their primary goal. They LOVE weddings!

Do I have to like my fiancé's family?

In this video, Reverend Bill Cochran of Say “I Do” Your Way deals with a huge question he often helps couple process. Listen in and discover how to know if you’re ready for marriage and where you can find help in processing this significant decision.

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Host: Do I have to like my fiance's family?

Bill Cochran: It would certainly be helpful, but you don't have to like anything. Well, it would be helpful to like your fiance I think, but what I am discovering so many couples are telling me nowadays is, You know we were dating and everything was going really, really great and that we felt so compatible and the family seem to happy and then the day we got engaged, all of a sudden I realized I had in-laws with opinions and a lot of those opinions were how to manage my wedding and so, now I feel like I am just out of control on this whole thing. I am not even sure I like them much any more.

Well, there is ways of working with that and that's where a pre-marriage counselor can help you. There are classes you can take, to help you to deal with the stress of dealing with planning of the wedding and anticipating the marriage. So, there are places you can go to help you to find out how to get along a little better with the in-laws.

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