Can we have input in planning our wedding ceremony?

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Bill Cochran
Say "I Do" Your Way
www.sayidoyourway.com  
301-926-2671

Rev. Bill Cochran is the owner of Say “I Do” Your Way. In this company, Bill & his wife Joyce offer their services as wedding officiants and pre-marriage Counselors.  They have been working with couples for the past thirty-nine years and have conducted hundreds of weddings. Bill also serves as a trainer for Life Innovations certification of counselors and clergy in the Metro Washington, DC/Maryland/Virginia area. His extensive background in marriage and pre-marriage counseling has prepared hundreds of couples to navigate the tough issues of relationship building.

Over the years, Bill & Joyce have built an exciting and fulfilling marriage relationship. Thus they see weddings as the greatest event in life. Helping other couples to share the same positive experience they enjoy in marriage is their primary goal. They LOVE weddings!

Can we have input in planning our wedding ceremony?

Reverend Bill Cochran of Say “I Do” Your Way realizes that when a bride gets engaged, she is suddenly faced with the daunting task of planning the wedding. In this video, he shares from his forty years of experience in helping couples plan their unique wedding ceremony. Learn how to identify the type of ceremony you want as well as when and how to plan it, the kind of input you should expect to have and finally, the details you need to know about getting your certified marriage certificate.

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Host: Can we have input in planning our wedding ceremony?

Rev. Bill Cochran: It depends on your Officiants. For instance if you are getting married in a church setting by the Pastor or Priest or the Rabbi at the synagogue, you can pretty much expect that they are going to come in with a fill in the blank kind of a ceremony. It is not going to give you a lot of input, but it still doesn't hurt to ask. There are those who are very open to it, but others just dont really have the time to put into it. Now I am outside of that setting and since I do this full time and there are many others like me whoever you find our self, you can find a wedding officiant close by. We pride ourselves in taking plenty of time to listen to you and to try to design the kind of ceremony you are looking for.

If any wedding officiant says to you, Well, I have one of several ceremonies, choose the one you want, you would still want to ask them but do I still get some input to change the things around. That will be an important question for you to ask them. But yes, we should listen very carefully to what it is you want and make sure that the ceremony reflects your personalities.

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